White guy ruins salsa night

I brought a girl friend with me to salsa night. She was a little dismayed at a comment she heard as a white guy exited the club. He was complaining "I can't believe all those beginner girls waisted my time!" This is a perfect example of how white guys like him ruin Salsa dance nights! Salsa is a social dance! The real reason Latin guys learn to dance is; it's a great way to seduce girls, get laid or make their wives super happy. Its not about your dance moves! Although a great deal of training goes into the suave of the dance, all that effort is for a social purpose. All the glory of sexy showing off is about attracting and pleasing each other and having fun! Any Latin or Black guy knows that a beginner is the most fun to impress! But this brings me to another sad truth about the White guy syndrome. Why is it that white guys seem to either ignore the beauty of women around them completely, or cat call in a way that feels scary, like a put down, and even hateful? Where as with Latin and African cultures and also African American men its the opposite. They cat call in a way that makes me feel loved and nourished by appreciation.When I go salsa dancing or to Miami, suddenly I feel like a woman at last. The men let their feelings show in beautiful ways. I feel acknowledged, I feel like my presence is nourishing the room. Yet in my own town I might as well be a cadaver all ready. Either the men are completely disinterested, or repressed. I tried an experiment last week. I put on my hottest salsa dress and platform heels with poppies on the toes, and went grocery shopping at the Green Field Co-op. Was there even one compliment from any white guy? Even one smile or flirt? Not one! But thank the Goddess for the big black guy smiling at me as I waited for cars to stop and crossed over to his side of the street. "You know your gonna stop traffic" He said shyly, " you don't need to wait for any one!" He said it so beautifully, he made me laugh, I felt safer knowing one man cared that my feminine energy exists. Have we terrified white men in our quest for equal rights? I remember one trip to Miami in which the two airports seemed like different planets. On planet Miami there were women , and children and families every where. Female beauty was palpable like cake in the air. Its true the heals were too high but everything else was healthy. On planet New England, The there were no women, oh wait those are women... in traditional New England "self hijab attire" as my friend Chris calls it, so tiresome! The men and the women seemed to have blended into one species. Is this the price we paid for our more equal status in Mass? Is it that men have been feminized? Or have women won the equal right to act like men? I was relieved in NewEngland on one hand to know no man would see me or treat me as a woman. Every one would be neutered and My personalty would be the only thing responded to....(That is unless a man from another culture crossed my path!) The majority of white guys seem to only like girls and not be able to see women. I wonder if this actually goes back to being circumcised. Most ethnic guys ( I have been told) (besides jewish guys) are not circumcised. How can you trust women if your own mother has condoned the castration of half of your dick? Instinctually women would not be attractive Girls are your only safe bet. Deep down how can you trust women when your own mother allowed this genital mutilation to happen to you when you were the most vulnerable, powerless, and when physical sensation for babies makes pain most heightened? Who would do this barbaric act to their own child?How sexy is that? Yet my mother says "why blame the mother?Doctors are mainly male, and they have decided this circumcision thing doesn't hurt much, is more aesthetic, and is healthier, men run governments and and hospitals and medicine, and women go along with it" However I did stand up to hospital protocol when they wanted to take my baby away the moment she was born for a three hour check over. I Met with doctors in advance and spelled out what they could and couldn't do. But check out this link!!! Its all about the real facts about circumcision vs. foreskins https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=